Thalassic polygamous family explores betrothal gift is difficult accept

3 wives cook by turns, be in harmony of its Le Rong earns money desperately to marry wife, betrothal gifts is too expensive. Although be in thalassic country is polygamous it is lawful, dan Yifu one wife ability is a society the mainstream

On March 20, the Zhu Chen of Chinese female chess player that is troubled by bubbling with noisely for a time " turn meeting incident " solve satisfactorily in Hangzhou. On the press conference that day, zhu Chen chokes with sobs the ground states he is " pure China is made " , turning can be too persistent to love. In the meantime, she also laughs at character, "Allow there polygamous, if he marries 4 wife, I come back. "

Qatar husband Mohammed of Zhu Chen is very fond of to Zhu Chen have add, and in Qatar, polygamous family is occupied only very one of scale. Everybody is natural can need not be " after belle chess " the destiny is afraid. Nevertheless, this fun word of Zhu Chen causes everybody however the interest of mysterious to thalassic country polygamous phenomenon.

Thalassic polygamous family explores betrothal gift is difficult accept

The Xiaozhao that comes to Bahrain for the first time understands thalassic country not much, he discovers amazedly, go on the ave to often can see such circumstance: The woman that a middleaged man is getting 3 two unconscious black gauze shops shop, still follow 78 children after one's death. Xiaozhao says, they look resembling is a family, can what relation is? Classics person shows him later just suddenly be enlightened, so they are madams of a few rooms. In thalassic country, it is to allow polygamous. To contemporary Chinese, this kind of case appears very mysterious, interesting. People nature wants to understand: A few ladies does this husband treat? How to get along again between madams? This still resembles really is the veil that Arabia woman wears, be full of mystery colour

3 wives live together one curtilage

Er of Sa of cost of moxa cloth · is Beidouyin the person's descendant, he lives in Saudi Arabia auspicious to amount to city northeast suburbs in a little village outside 20 kilometers. Should his enthusiastic photograph is invited, the author visited his home.

This is a newly-built house. The courtyard is very small, walk along a few paces to be crossed only into the gate into a big one-storey house. Abduct of the person that moxa cloth · expends Sa Er to getting a pen took the coffee office on the right side of, sit down in the on the ground on carpet together. Not a little while, host carried the Arabia coffee of sterling faint scent. Feisaer tells moxa cloth · the author, he married 3 wives, wife people gave birth to 5 daughters and 6 sons to him. Big daughter this year 23 years old, be moved in the city to go after marriage.

Had drunk coffee, moxa cloth · expends Sa Er to took us to visit his home: A hall is on the right side of coffee hall, kitchen and 3 bedrooms are on the side of the hall. 3 wives of Ai Bu each a bedroom, every bedroom contains toilet.

Moxa cloth · expends Sa Er to still took the author to visit his small grazing land. Che Gang stops, the camel of far toward us slowly go, resembling is the guest that will welcome to come from afar. Feisaer says moxa cloth · , grass shares 10 camels and 100 sheep, they divide 3 wives that belong to him and himself him. Every camel and sheep have apparent number on the body, who is making clear host. The author approachs scrutiny, go up in camel and ovine body as expected mark has all sorts of sign: 3, have semicircular, also have horse's hoof look.

Feisaer tells moxa cloth · the author: Weekly, he lives on two days in the house of every wife by turns. On Sunday, he arrives oneself desert small grazing land is resided alone. Ai Bujiao says be proudingly to the author, 3 his wives get along very harmoniously, cook by turns, partake household thing, be in harmony of its Le Rong. When leisure, he is met and 3 wives are taking children to arrive together field or seaside amuse oneself.

Ai Bu is right wife people very fair also. Once, he accompanies the author to ramble when bazaar, the silk bedcover that bought 3 same quality of a material incidentally and 3 headgear with same price. These are he buys a wife people gift, every wife.

In moxa cloth · Feisaer looks, the camel sheep of numerous wife room children and group is him fortune and position is indicative. Nevertheless, the author never has witnessed moxa cloth · to expend Sa Er the fragrant look of 3 charming wife. Because be used to according to the tradition of the Arab, the wife cannot see with the man besides directly-related members of one's family -parents casually.

Very difficult end makes the same score a bowl of water

Not be every Arabia man wants to marry many wife.

The Mohammed · A Damu that comes from Sudan is the author's friend. His one's early years comes China study abroad, learned 12 years in Beijing language institute and Tsinghua university. After finish school, via person introduction, he knew a the Hui nationality female vocal actor. Two people see admire, be fond of knot happy match before long. But before get married, the woman gives Mohammed agree on a three-point law: One, the woman's citizenship is changeless; 2, have in parents unripe year, the woman does not go Sudan is resident; 3, to " the Koran " pledge, marry her only one person is wife, forbid other form new sweetheart. Mohammed · A Damu stands fast to be not carried on the back to these 3 all the time. such, two people lived 18 years in Beijing all the time. Now, children are big, entered Sudan native place completely. Big daughter is 17 years old, attended a college, two sons read in the middle school.

The author asks Mohammed, one husband one wife good, or are 4 wife good? Mohammed answers: "Polygamous too tired! 4 wife go, one pile child wants keep an eye on, accomplish very hard really comprehensive. Besides, very difficult end makes the same score a bowl of water, want true equality treats every wife, also be by no means an easy thing. "

Thalassic polygamous family explores betrothal gift is difficult accept

Earn money desperately marry wife

The author ever encountered a driver when Bahrain, he had married 3 wife, still prepare to marry the 4th. But his money is insufficient, earn money desperately then; Besides drive, he returns a part-time job to work. To marry before 3 wife, he had spent 40 thousand much dollar, marry to must spend on 10 thousand dollars again again now. And drive every months, he can earn 500 much dollars only. Look, want save money enough after this money gets 5 years.

To Arabia youth, marry the nothing is more... than of the biggest difficult problem that place should be faced with pays betrothal gift. Normally for, betrothal gift should include face of headgear, rice, camel and sheep to wait. And, because formal wedding is held in advanced restaurant mostly,do, nature of exalted bridal ceremony charge is essential also. In addition, marry to still need to buy a house, acquire furniture electric equipment. So calculate come down, marry expense is little criterion 3, 40 thousand dollar, many 8, 90 thousand dollar. Accordingly, youth of quite a few can look only " marriage " promote sigh, many people must seek two jobs, live frugally. The country such as a few Egypt, Sudan, Yemen, Jordan the youth often applies for a job to thalassic country, struggle, farewell country marries.